8 posts tagged “queer”
I have much excitement over my recent concert ticket purchases. On December 11th we have The Gossip (Beth Ditto you are my homogrrl!) and on the 13th the lovely Tegan and Sara... mmm double lezzo goodness!
Life doesn't get better than this!
For me, web browsing can be like free association, a scattered, tenuous following of links to something vaguely interesting. Sometimes, you come across something or someone extra cool/special/important/interesting/oh my god that's what I want to be doing... and you wonder why you've not manage to find them until now.
I read this post in templedata, followed by spotting this post in PSFK... I remember the My Space vs. Facebook hoo ha that sprung up a couple of weeks ago and finally it occurs to me to wonder who this danah boyd (why lower case?) chick is. So I check out her website and think to myself, mmmm spunky, whilst also noting the her favicon.ico is a rainbow flag :-D Urge to investigate further. Visit her blog. Posts and papers abound on social networking (how am I going to get through them all?!) and then, as I always like to look at the first post in someones blog, I find this one from June 1997.
I'm just going to reproduce it all but please do go and visit her blog, some posts of interest are linked below.
last nite, i had a rather intense discussion with my lover. he was trying to understand my identification with queer, why it is important to me and to others. i had been thinking about this question for quite some time and i finally had an answer for him which i will try to explain to you, the bytes and bits of the internet.
there are two types of identities that one must come to terms - those that s/he defines for hirself and those that the outside world defines for hir. some identities that you hold tight to yourself can be hidden while others cannot. for example, i cannot hide the fact that i am white or the fact that i am female. only in virtual settings is this even remotely possible. thus, when i walk down the street, i am categorized as a white female.
personally, i have the ability to hide the fact that i am not "straight" for some definition of straight. i admit that not everyone has that opportunity but i do. i prefer not to hide it but rather show tokens of my queerness, through jewelry, clothing and hairstyle.
so why do i do this? in an ideal world, sexuality would not matter and people would not be discriminated against based on this identity. but this is not an ideal world. as a result, those who cannot hide and those who choose not to are constantly subjected to prejudices. do not get me wrong, i do not desire the prejudices, but i am not willing to pass as straight in order to avoid them. if i hide my sexuality, i am telling the world that it is ok to push the minority down. i am not standing up for those who are experiencing discrimination and thus, i am just as much of the problem as those who create the system in the first place.
in order for this discrimination to stop, it is important to show strength in the cause. by clearly marking myself as queer-identified, i publicly stand as an individual who is not willing to accept the discrimination that occurs to those who are like me. by appearing at rallies, i publicly announce my support for the cause. by talking queer talk, i publicly show that i am accepting of the difference.
"pride" is essential in the states, because we are always told that we are evil and not accepted. by being proud in your self and in the cause, you make a statement to the world that this attitude is not tolerated. by being proud, you give those who are being pushed down someone to identify with and come to when they are in need. by being proud, you stand as a symbol of those killed in the past and those currently tortured.
in order to accept myself, i need to stand as a symbol against homophobia, even if that means that i myself am injured.
See also: my queer dyke cunt, girls in boy-wear, Globalization of norms: Facebook challenges Arab LGBT group, my queer identity - I could go on.
My new internet crush :-) too bad I wasn't more on the ball or I could see her speak at the Education.au seminar in Brisbane or Melbourne... as it it, I must be content with podcasts.
I can always count on Justice Michael Kirby to articulate how I feel on certain issues. He spoke on Monday at the 12th National Family Law Conference in Perth on the issue of Marriage Equality. I hope to get a hold of his full presentation.
Via the Sydney Star Observer. Further in the Sydney Morning Herald and The Age
...to Danielle Spires.
Great photography and anything remotely dykey always gets my vote. Check out the Drag King series and even better than that, the name of her website: catpartyletsgo.com... perhaps she's a pussy whisperer too?
Does this vox thing have a link list function? I couldn't seem to find it.
I wanted to link to some other Dyke/Queer Women Lovin' Women/Bi/Trans* blogs that aren't on here. From some of the blogs I've read, no one seems to want to call themselves Lesbian any more. Phft! Anyhoo, I digress. I have not read all of these and this is more of a reminder to myself to check them out than anything else. Feel free to let me know of your faves via comments.
*or just friendly to all of the aforementioned as I wouldn't want to presume!
Here they are in no particular order:
Cheese and Whine
Happy city dwelling dyke who along with her trusty sidekick (aka "my
wife") are starting the journey towards motherhood. Also known as "Holy
Crap! I can't believe we're trying to have a baby!"
The Ninth Circle of Helen
This is my personal blog. The views expressed on these pages are mine
alone and not those of my employer. Or my mom. Or Robert Loggia.
Delectatio Morosa
If you were a pirate, how would you avoid laughing when saying "poop deck"? Saying "shit deck." But who wants to avoid laughing?
Screw Bronze!
A struggling academic and writer of the Gold Award winning book Zed. A
lesbian. Examination and commentary on LGBT trends. Strange obsession with
fencing, epee fencing, naked lesbian fencing, goth girls, lesbian vampires,
lesbian pirates, manga and myself.
Getting My Frique On
Feminist, Kinky, Queer: The Owner's Manual. I'm not writing this for you, I'm writing it for me. If you get turned on by it and call it porn, that's incidental.
...to Arlene TextaQueen
'Texta' is Aussie for felt-tip marker and Arlene TestaQueen likes her tips felt! Love this chicks work... even posed for her once but it was never finished. I reckon I was too boring! Catch her exhibition:
Felt-tips Forever
@ The Arm
218 North 7th St
Williamsburg, Brooklyn NY
Oct 13 - 17th
Friday - Tues noon - 6pm
Opening Oct 13th 7pm with live performance
